Not the A-hole. A few days ago my ex-husband mistakenly transferred two payments of 8700 and 9275. He did this at around 7:40am in the morning and I didn't notice because I had just worked a double/night shift and was getting ready for bed. So my phone was charging on the nightstand. At the same time my 4 children were at my parents and so I ...Telling me that my parents are going to give me grocery money anyway after I call out that you've been eating the majority of my food makes me wonder if you truly respect them and me. When I have to ask my parents for double the money in a short period of time to replace all of what you are eating, it is putting me in danger of having my ...1.) Telling my husband he was being selfish by buying tickets to his favorite band during the week I was planning a vacation for us for my 30th birthday. 2.) I should just be happy he got me a ticket to come with him and “share the experience”. Help keep the sub engaging!ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my "brother" if his kids go hungry that's his problem not mine. Not the A-hole. Throwaway My English is a work in progress so just a warning. I'll call my "brother" mike and my ex Tammy. 10 years ago my than fiancé left me at the alter (most humiliating thing I've ever been through) and went on our ...So to give some context, I (f32) have been married to my husband (m39) for 4 years. I work a full time job while he does a 3 times a week night shift. We have a 2 year old and I'm 6 months pregnant. This whole drama started days ago. My husband has a large family. And on every Christmas they'd gather at his father's house.Yup. My parents married in 1956. My mother had to have my dad meet with the manager of Dayton's in Minneapolis to allow her to have a credit card. Stupid thing is my dad never could handle money, constantly overspent and mom took over all the finances by 1959. She also wasn't allowed to wear pants at her job at the University of Minnesota till ...This means the debt he is taking out is now your debt as well. I would research local laws, because you may also be responsible for the loans he is taking out to keep his ex happy. NTA. You already have 2 kids to provide for without taking on private school tuition for 4 …AITA for telling my husband to talk to his mother re: our newborn. My husband and I just had our first child together after a couple years of trying and dealing with infertility. Our son came early, a month and a half - we spent three weeks in the NICU and it was a very emotional time for me/us. Fast forward and we are now home and getting used ...My husband said that was fine however, my son decided not to go last minute because he wanted to just spend time with my husband. (My husband didn’t know that but I did) My husband spent the day with Jane and her son even after me telling him that I wasn’t happy about him going and that he should cancel - but he said he already told her he ...Sometimes going back to school to earn a first or second bachelor’s degree, postgraduate degree or college certificate seems like the best way to move careers forward. If your husb...5.6M views. Discover videos related to Aita for Expecting My Husband to Make Exception Part 2 on TikTok. See more videos about Expecting My Husband to Make An Exception Part 3, Husband Requirement List, Aita for Expecting My Husband to Make Exception, Patiently Waiting for My Husband, Myhusband Part 1, Related to My Husband.The biggest reason that we kept them separate at the beginning was I had a lot of debt (student loans). I worked 3 jobs over the course of a couple years and paid it all off ($57k). My husband did not contribute to paying off my debt. Totally fine, it was mine before we were married and not his responsibility.The glass ceiling is sadly still alive and holding women down in modern society. Generally speaking, women are paid only 80% of what men are paid, even when the work is exactly the...AITA for telling my husband to stop spending so much money on his dead girlfriend's younger sister? I (28F) have been with my husband (34M) for almost a decade. We have three children (6F, 3M, 2F) together, and we are currently expecting our fourth child. He is an amazing father to our kids and I couldn't ask for a better husband.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.It was a confident, high-powered investment firm with credit lines at top financial institutions. It made big bets using borrowed money to buy assets and generate higher returns. B...AITA for telling my husband he doesn't want to change, I'm (30F) and he's (30M). We don't live together and at the moment I'm staying at my families home with our 2 kids. He has a history of gambling, lying, and getting drunk. Gambling is an addiction, not that he'll admit. Drinking is only once in a while but still.My step-dad, who I love and is a real father, and my husband, who never experienced anything like my mother before, kept hounding me to answer her constant calls and just talk to her. I knew how it would go but said fine, enjoy the shitshow on speaker phone. I got screamed at by her drunk ass for a good five minutes. How DARE I go no contact ...We got the results back yesterday, and my husband came home to view them with me. I was on the couch in the living room, so he sat next to me and we started to read the results. They showed that he was the father and my husband had this shocked, kinda mortified look on his face with his eyes wide as he stared at it.I looked at the $100 and told her I wanted a replacement coat or the amount it currently cost so that I can buy a new one and that $100 won’t cover it. She said he went to the store and it cost $700 now but she knew I only paid $100 for it so she told him $100 would cover the cost. I argued that $100 doesn’t buy me a new coat.But make your husband deal with his mother. Make it clear that the standard he ignores is that standard he accepts, and even though he normally stands up for you, it's time that he stopped the disrespect entirely. Standing up to her hasn't done anything, she's racist and she's escalating her provocative behaviour.If you're interested in knowing what your husband's financial situation is, you can inspect his credit report, sometimes known as running a credit check. While you cannot simply ru...With China slowing, there’s a lot of concern about the complicated global pipeline of companies and shippers that dig stuff out of the ground and sell it to the Asian giant. One of...Asshole. So earlier today I (28F) told my husband (30M) he needs to make more money, especially if we want to start a family. We were texting at work and I was just kinda casually telling him we need to make more money (especially living in Silicon Valley). I also told him "im waiting on you..Having a kids is in your hands….I calmly told him to pack him and his kids stuff and get out of my house and that they needed to stay gone for awhile. I told him I needed space, without harassment and said that I am reconsidering staying in this marriage. He says that breaking vows over kids being excited about a baby "shows my true colors".AITA for telling my husband I won't cook for him again if he chose to eat his coworker's meal over mine. awards Hear me out. My husband (Jesse, 31) has been bringing home meals that his female coworker (Nelly) cook for him. Now I'm not the best cook and Jesse's made it clear but he still eats what I cook everyday.yeetfaraway. AITA for telling my husband I will not financially support his mother? Not the A-hole. Throwaway for reasons. My husband told me recently he wants to send money to his mother every month because she's not in good shape financially. Thing is, this is entirely my MIL's fault, and entirely avoidable.The new feature assembly jobs are bouncing around, from position to position, many missing altogether because people pretend they don't have time to do it since it got added to their job. Then it gets moved to another job, so that person starts dragging their feet to get it taken back off of their job. It works too.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my husband I want a divorce and money? I 30 F married 31 m in July 2023. Before we got married we dated 3 years, and had a baby 09-22. He had been caught texting some people in the beginning, but claimed he loved me so much. Fastforward to right after we got married I had a dream he was talking to someone.My ex had a laundry list longer than my arm of diagnosed mental conditions himself, but unfortunately for me, he was also a very skilled manipulator (he learned from the best, his adoptive mother), and was very pretty himself, so my brain stopped working like it should until God had to crack me upside the head with a 2x4 so I would wake the ...A financial adviser explains how couples should approach their finances together. By clicking "TRY IT", I agree to receive newsletters and promotions from Money and its partners. I...AITA for telling my daughter if she pays for her sisters college then I will stop "favoring" her with my money . Not the A-hole ... My husband and I have been scrambling to give as much money as possible to Grace since she really got screwed over. Even with all our help she still needs to take out student loans.My ex just nodded to what I was saying, and asked if he could see our daughter. I was a bit hesitant, but said yes, and called my sister to have her bring our daughter down to the living room. My ex held our daughter, and talked to the baby for a bit before leaving. My sister asked me if I was alright after he was gone, and I told her I was okay.A year later I start dating my now husband. His business started raking in a lot of profits soon after we met. After we married, I kept my friendship to Marie even though she wasn't part of the Santa Barbara scene. My husband retired my mom after we got married. He also funded my boutique business. However, he is someone who gets bored easily.My husband is a business owner (real estate developer) and he makes a lot more than I do. He also comes from money. My sister didn't like him from the get go, she even threw a tantrum (thankfully in private) in my wedding. Apparently the bride gifts he brought were tacky (more like very expensive, more than what yer husband could get her)But air frying fish may not actually be better because it raises the level of "cholesterol oxidation products" (COPs). One way to lower the amount of COPs when you air fry fish is to add fresh parsley, chives, or a mixture of the two. Research shows these herbs act as antioxidants to reduce the COPs in air-fried foods.If you go for your family get your ass back to that abortion clinic before confessing. It is not fair to put this choice on your husband. This choice needs to be yours. Basically if you tell him en he asks you to abort you will resent him for it. And he will resent himself for it as well. This is your fault.NTA. You telling your mom when you're scared for your safety isn't comparable to him complaining about you to his dad (and whole family since his dad spreads it everywhere). The bigger problem here, though, is that your husband undervalues your feelings and safety this much.AITA for asking my husband if we can give money to his parents? I newly married to a family whose culture is extremely different to ours. Ours is very open about everything, i.e. issues at work, problems at home, etc. while my husband is more of the introvert, keep-it-yourself guy. His family seems to also have a lot of unspoken rules and ...I asked my husband about it. He said that he didn't care but he didn't want it to "interfere" with my responsibilities at home. We also agreed the money would be mine since it's a second job. We did this for 3 yrs. It grew into where I cleaned other places for my landlord. I just put the money into savings.My grandma took me to get ice cream and I explained everything. What happened in my last post as well as everything else that's been going on this past year. She agrees with a lot of you guys that my mom is probably being abused and needs help. We're looking into options for groups and stuff that'll help her out, though my grandma's doing most ...Nice-Cry-8280. AITA for telling my husband I threw out his clothes to teach him a lesson? 30f. I have 4 children (10yo triplets - 2 boys, 1 girl - from my previous marriage, their father passed when I was pregnant, and a 6mo with my current husband). Been with my husband for 4 years.Apparently he did tell her what it was about before the meeting: to stop having the friends over so much. Here is one thing I have learned with my wife, and other's in my life. If I give them reasons why, they argue back to tell me why my reason is invalid or what they can do to overcome my argument. No matter what reason I give, it is not enough.My husband wanted to get them a decent wedding gift and tried borrowing money from friends and neighbors but got turned down. He kept stressing out about it for weeks and just the other day (the wedding was days prior and the groom and bride are off to their honeymoon) I discovered that my jewelry set was gone. I freaked after my husband …My husband has known Clara since she was a baby and he treats her like his own little sister. Her family had a lot of financial problems, while my husband has a very high earning career. He says he felt guilty letting her struggle while he has all this money he doesn't use. Clara's home life was very dysfunctional, especially after her mom ...r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I might be an asshole for telling my daughter that I will not pay for her wedding or walk her down the isle until she invites her siblings she excluded due to them not being "traditional ...AITA for telling my husband his "fragile masculinity" is costing us money? Back in late 2021, my husband Craig (M46) and I (F44) welcomed our fourth child into the world. As a result, we needed to upgrade one of our cars to something larger. We decided to trade in my super reliable Toyota RAV4 for something bigger since I was the one who ...ADMIN MOD. AITA For telling my mother in law I married her daughter and not her? Not the A-hole. My mother in law is a kind and funny woman though She does have few problems with boundaries and is a little too involved in my marriage especially now that my wife's pregnant. My wife's family aren't well off financially and it's the opposite with ...Because of this my husband convinced himself I make them with “fake” milk/butter/whatever, and says they taste “off,” when I’m literally just following package directions and making the standard Ghirardelli dark chocolate brownies from the box. People really do get in their heads about this ish.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I cut my mother off financially and made a petty remark as to what she should do instead. 2. This might make me an asshole because im saying exactly what was told to me as a kid, in response to something i wanted. Some might say i need to leave the past in ...My husband and I do Easter baskets for one another, and this year he gave me mine early since I'll be gone. In the basket was the usual, dark choco bunny, Starburst jelly beans, and then some Swiftie stuff from Etsy, a fidget toy, and really surprisingly he got me three full bottles of perfumes that were on my wish list.AITA for telling my son that we don't really have any room for him right now so he needs to live with his dad and stepmom. My ex-husband and I divorced when my son was ten. My ex had found someone new. We went for 50/50 custody but he still had to pay some child support. I went back to school at that time.I didn't know how much money to ask my husband for. And I should have known immediately how much I should want/need Help keep the sub engaging! Don't downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. Subreddit Announcements Happy Anniversary, AITA!My ex had a laundry list longer than my arm of diagnosed mental conditions himself, but unfortunately for me, he was also a very skilled manipulator (he learned from the best, his adoptive mother), and was very pretty himself, so my brain stopped working like it should until God had to crack me upside the head with a 2x4 so I would wake the ...He has been making extra money on the side as a tutor. ... AITA for telling my husband my ex and I traveled to 56 countries together? I (44F) am turning 45 August 3rd. Two months ago my husband of 5 years (45M) surprised me and said he booked us a 10 day vacation to Italy. We leave July 28th. My husband is a special ed middle school teacher …ADMIN MOD. AITA - for telling my husband that I no longer want my son around "The Team"? Not the A-hole. First of all, and to get out the way, my husband and I got married 2 years ago. I have a 7 year old from a previous marriage. We moved to his hometown some months ago and started spending more time with his family.When her brother needed help, it's I who gave him money. Why? Because they are MY in-laws, and he's MY brother-in-law. I think it's my responsibility to look after their parents. She thinks it's her responsibility to look after mine in another way. It's absolutely NOT one-sided on my part. My wife Lisa and I have been together for a while.8.7K Likes, 189 Comments. TikTok video from redditlisa (@redditlisa): “AITA for telling my husband. My money is mine? #storytime #reddit #redditstories #fyp #story #viral #AITA”. …ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my wife our daughter is more important than she is? Not the A-hole. Our daughter is turning 18 in October. She a great kid, always pulled straight A's, never in any type of trouble and she's very respectful. My wife recently decided to have a talk with her about adult responsibilities.My kids have more time to study and do extracurriculars. They still have chores and they are still expected to clean up after themselves. My husband came to me last time I was home and said we should cut back on the service when I'm home. That I should be doing more housework. He thinks that we are wasting money.So a quick little backstory. My husband (21M) and his brother (25M) have always had a great relationship. His brother moved away when he was younger and even though they're now 2 hours apart, they still regularly talk and play games online together. My husband is one of six kids and they all are still in contact and on good terms.Yea. Family is more than blood and she is his family. You are basically asking him to cut off his little sister or even daughter. I get it but unless your family is struggling you should leave it alone.. Asshole. Throwaway. I (F32) have been married to OP has offered the following explanation for why they think t My husband likes adventures. But these “adventures” of his, they drive me absolutely bonkers. His well-meaning, fun-intending, pushing us all out of our far too...Put my glass in the sink, throw my left overs away, clean up after myself. And while I don't have to ask permission to get water or a drink, I do say a bit of an announcement, "I'm going to get a glass of water." Friend, "Please do!" It's called being respectful. OP, change your garage code and don't tell the fiancee, she can't be trusted. NTA r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustr The new feature assembly jobs are bouncing around, from position to position, many missing altogether because people pretend they don't have time to do it since it got added to their job. Then it gets moved to another job, so that person starts dragging their feet to get it taken back off of their job. It works too. My husband makes 150k+ a year but decides where e...
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