So I’m at a bit of a crossroad today. I’m thinking of selling the car I bought for my mom. I love my mom a lot and I got her a new Lexus in 2021. I’m not rich, and honestly it’s not easy paying for it. I’m 27f and my mom is 60, and I have a sibling 37f who lives with me, but I don’t recognize because honestly I hate her.So, after my husband told me that, I got up and left the house. I went to the grocery store on the corner and grabbed a copy of our area's apartment guide went back home and handed it to him. He asked if I were serious. I told him I still felt the same way as I did 3 years ago. He said he didn't think that was fair considering the extenuating ...AITA for selling my PS5 rather than sharing it with my step brothers? My (15, M) mum and dad met and briefly dated while they were both studying at uni. ... I've given him a home, a family and fund his lifestyle, all at the cost of my own relationship. In return, I haven't asked for a cent, and he won't treat me with respect nor follow my ...Family or not, your great-grandmother's will was/is a legally binding document that they should've upheld, so taking them to court isn't wrong. If that's how you're able to get your inheritance then so be it. NTA...at all. Reply reply. Georgia_girl_52. •. Sadly, this is the reason the family is mad at OP.Long story short, my grandparents used to live on this ranch for almost 60 years and both passed on the property. My mother was raised there and so were my siblings and I so there's quite a lot of sentimental value to the house. There's also a lot of monetary value to the property. The problem is the upkeep.AITA For moving to a different country and not telling my family. For the last couple of months, I have considered moving to Nigeria to be with my fiancee and his family. I currently live in the United States with our daughter. I met my fiancee two years ago while I am was in college getting my nursing degree and he was getting his degree in IT.Apart-Tradition-2235. ADMIN MOD. AITA for selling my stethoscope instead of giving it back to the family? Not the A-hole. I'm (20sF) from an immigrant family in the US. There's a stereotype among members of my community that only a handful of jobs that are acceptable to have (i.e. doctor, lawyer, engineer).NTA at all. $300 is an absolute steal of a deal and there is no reason why two (presumably able-bodied) adults cannot scrap up $300 a month for rent. Where I live, the most basic level of welfare budgets for $500 a month for rent. Bahahahaha my rent for a 2 bed unit an hour from the centre of Sydney is over $2000.AITA for selling a family heirloom to pay for my destination wedding? Asshole. My fiancée (38F) and I (39M) are planning to get married this summer. We both want to have quite a lavish wedding at a winery in another state. The two of us agree that it's the most important occasion in our lives, so we should make it as memorable as possible.AITA for asking my husband to move because I am fed up with his family : r/AmItheAsshole. Go to AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you ...A Wedding Dilemma. I (26 f) recently got engaged to my fiance (36 m). Yesterday I was talking with my family about wedding plans. I mentioned that i found a purple mermaid wedding gown and a white ...AITA For Wanting To Sell Our Family Home To A Stranger Even Though My Half Sister. admin May 18, 2024 AITA. : ob_end_flush (): Failed to send buffer of zlib output compression (0) in on line.Coral is just a brat. She needs to apologize and pay for the things she destroyed. And as for his ex in-laws, tell them to mind their own business because if the situation was reversed they would be screaming the loudest about your daughter needing to be punished.In purchasing it from my grandparents, I made it clear that it would no longer be a family home and that I would be using it for an income stream. They knew this before selling. Jean and I are not close, she's one of 13 cousins on that side of the family, we are 7 years apart and see each other probably 1-2 times a year at most.Legal_Fudge_5830. • 9 days ago. No. NTA. Considering the family member could actually sell both plots at ten times the price, if not twenty times the value, with such a large plot, if he so chose to do so in the future. Family member refused to accept the $50,000 discount, their choice, but ultimately also very manipulative to try and get you ...Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: (1) I sold my husband's ps5 against his approval. (2) I might be the ah since it's a gift essentially and I took it and sold it.I rent out my house through a service that includes insurance when it is in use. The insurance does not cover when I lend my house out to friends and family since they are not paying. I have regular homeowners insurance for that. My brother was using my house with his family just after New Year's.AITA for not selling my beach house to help my sister buy a new home. Some context I bought my second home on the beach in florida 2 years ago and its fully paid off. Recently my sister had her third kid and her. Her husband and their three kids live in a 2 bedroom studio apartment and recently been unable to continue making payments on the ...You don't need to sell a house to buy another one. Most people do to qualify for the mortgage but if they have enough money and income, they're fine. 'Need' is relative. Somebody buying a house is probably counting on selling their old house to radically reduce the principal on the balance of the new house loan.And don't worry; sometimes it really does take another perspective to realize how bad things are, especially when the decline has been gradual. It's what you do when presented with the situation for what it is that's important. Good for you for taking back control of your life and happiness! :) 2. nohorsethrow.For context, I recently moved back into my family home, which houses two of my siblings, my separated parents, and maternal grandparents. I moved back to save on money since I am working full time and doing a tech bootcamp to switch careers, but in the process of doing so I’m also helping pay for expenses around the house since my family almost lost the house due to late payments a few ...1.2K views, 14 likes, 0 loves, 52 comments, 0 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Reddit Family Drama: AITA for selling "my daughter's" car?We’re a low income family with 1 child (2m) and one on the way. I work 2 jobs and while he’s job hunting, he stays home and works on keeping the house clean and taking care of our animals. Recently, my boss helped me out and bought a cheapy car for me as my old one was becoming unsafe. When my bf had a job, the plan was to give it to him ...AITA for selling my ex-fiance's family heirloom when he wouldn't pay me back for our canceled wedding? I (27F) was supposed to get married to my ex-fiance 'Mason' (29M) …AITA for kicking out my family. On mobile. So this may be an easy one. I already feel bad but in the same instance I feel justified. I just served my aunt and uncle with a Trespass Notice. Background: My aunt and uncle came to stay with me in September. They approached my mom in early August looking to stay somewhere for a little til they could ...They tell me to leave their house. I lost it, and told them that they had 30 days to get out. Tell my son I'm selling the house and he could find somewhere else to live with all of you. I go to a realtor in town and list the house for sale. They call my son at work and tell him what I said. Apparently they thought that he owned the house. He ...Present_Carrot3245. ADMIN MOD. AITA for selling the house my stepdaughter feels entitled to? I (50f) and my husband (60m) have been married over 25 years. I have one stepdaughter (30) and we have two sons together 18 and 21. My stepdaughter and I have always gotten along. Her father divorced her mother 27 years ago due to infidelity on her part.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I packed and went home after I was told I wasn't invited to dinner. 2. I might be the ah for leaving and going home over this since inlaws invited me to this trip and maybe I overreacted because my husbands mad. Help keep the sub engaging!ADMIN MOD. AITA for selling things off of our farm that we bought 2 years ago from family. Not the A-hole. My boyfriend and I purchased my grandfathers 40 acre farm 2 years ago from family for $400,000 ($10,000 an acre, a little high for 2018 farm ground prices but the sentimental value was there). In the purchase agreement, it specifically ...The action I took: I sold the family heirloom, a grand piano, which was legally and explicitly bequeathed to me in my great-grandmother's will. Why that action might make me the …Losing my job is a possibility, and the repair expenses were not something I anticipated. But I now feel that I may be the AH for putting my family through the suffering of moving again. AITA for wanting to sell my house and avoid potential financial difficulties for my family? I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: decided that to meet terms of my dad's will I would sell some of his property abroad. currently his family live there rent free.I said my memory book is not a family project when my mom and stepdad attempted to make me open it up for everyone to take part in. This was after I didn't add my stepsiblings or stepdad even though my stepsiblings were hurt. I don't know if I did a good job of communicating with mom here so I might be a dick for that.AITA for selling my home that I was allowing my daughter to stay in for free even though she did some upgrades to it #wibtah #viralreels #fbreels #RedditAITA #fyp #tifu …Just be calm and say, “You always break my things when borrowing them and don’t offer to repair or replace the items. I will no longer loan you my things.”. Repeat as necessary in a calm voice. They can get mad all they want, they’re still in the wrong. wwolffstarr.AITAH for not giving my family a $1 for selling the family home. Years ago, my grandparents helped my mother get a house for stability. As we grew up, we moved out, leaving the house vacant due to my mother's husband's disinterest. In 2016, I asked for the house, but my mother refused, citing issues with my children's father.They vary from area to area, but let's say that a home like yours would sell for about $300K, with a typical 2.5% commission to the selling agent and 2.5% to the buying agent. That means that if you sell your home normally, for $300K, you're only going to actually get $285K out of it, with the other $15K going to commissions.So there are 5 grandkids in total. My dad was never much of a girls guy. He always got along with the boys more than the girls. Him and my son were very close. He has left the car to my son in his will. The rest of the grandkids got $4,000 each. The vehicle is valued at over $70,000.Geaux56. AITA for telling my Wife's family I'm an Atheist. Not the A-hole. My (32M) wife (31F) and I are expecting our first child. She is due in 3 months. We had my wife's family over for dinner last night. Brother and Sister in law, mother and father in law, grandparents - the whole gang. My wife and I have been married for 6 years ...Yeah, OP's not the AH for wanting to keep the house in the family, but is definitely the AH for the favoritism and treatment of the one son. If all the kid wanted was 30% of the value of the house then the other son could have taken out a loan for that amount and still ended up with the house at an amazing value with everyone happy.Posted by u/theexwifethrowaway - 140 votes and 97 commentsYou're not wrong to refuse to live in one of their properties - if you want to be independent it's the last thing you'll need. And if they buy it it will indeed be their property in their heads, regardless of whether they 'give' it to you or not. You are completely right to look for a place of your own. 6.Yes it is. Rent for a similar home in the area would be $2700 for a 3 bedroom with the same square footage. He does not have the credit or finances to buy a home but because the home has skyrocketed in value the mortgage is much cheaper than if you even got a mortgage today on the same home.Teen Sparks Drama After Selling Inherited Family Home Because Her Pregnant SIL Ate Her Dinner. by Amelia Mavis Christnot. Maria Ziegler/Unsplash. Blended families aren’t always the Brady Bunch. In some cases it’s more like Cinderella and her sisters. A 19-year-old woman struggled with the family dynamics between herself, her mother and her ...You had given him too much control over your property, didn't enforce boundaries, allowed him to dominate you. YTA to yourself. You are free now so get some counseling so you don't do this again.I 34 f own 2 properties one my family and I live in and the other is supposed to be an income property. In 2020 my mother, stepfather, and one of my siblings moved into my other property. They lived in the house for a year rent free as they were fixing minor things in the house. September of 2021 I asked them if they could pay $300 a month to ...That's not happening. My grandparents charming home NEAR the sea went from $350k-ish to $1.2million so no chance of getting that back either. With the housing market being what it is brother would probably have to win the lottery to reclaim the family home.Aita for running away from home and cutting off all contact with my family. Not the A-hole. For some context; I am an 18 year old male living with my family. I have 3 brothers and one sister. In my culture its normal to live with your family until you get married. One of my brothers, aged 12 has severe autism and im the main person who works ...My late husband (passed away in 2013) was a classic car guy. He bought and sold them since he was a teenager as a hobby. After he passed away, I kept his favorite car. My brother in law would come by and maintain it for us and sometimes take it to shows. My son would often go with his uncle to shows and when my son got his license he was ...Award. bran6442. • 1 yr. ago. In the states, unless you already have outstanding unpaid hospital bills, they do not charge you upfront, they bill you, and you can negotiate to make payments. Unless the surgery was outpatient or the car was a Mercedes, it's going to cost more than the value of a used car.Sheand my fiance freaked out after I told her that she needed to pay me for a new dress in 3 days or else I'll show the whole family the photo. She started crying and then left and my fiance blew up at me saying I can't be serious and that I overreacted because his mom just wanted to try the dress on, no harm done.NTA - Rule of acquisition 6: Never allow family to stand in the way of opportunity. You had an opportunity, you took it. If you family member was a good agent they would understand that. 2. [deleted] • 3 yr. ago. NTA. This housing market waits for no one. Your family member is being selfish.Rents have drastically increased, I'm talking over doubled since I was on my own last. I can't afford anything. The cheapest 1 bedrooms are 1800 a month. Bachelor's …They will absolutely take control and treat it as theirs. They believe, and have acted on the belief, that they are entitled first to anything our father has. I think I convinced my father to sell the land and the house and to just build something on the modest bit of land I have in the USA. It's close enough to a city and is over 6 acres.Yeah this whole situation is really the fault of the system more than anything. OP was able to buy a house at the age of 28 in 1980. These days, unless you have significant financial help from parents, you simply cannot afford to buy a family home in your 20s/30s.We have 2 daughters, oldest has started. The other is getting to the age where it will happen soon. My youngest is a boy. In our home, we are open about it. Don't get the wrong idea, we aren't nudists lol. But I want my kids to know the natural things a human body does, is nothing to be ashamed of. Speak freely, ask questions, get help if you ...Over the last couple of years, my family (i.e. my mother and sister) has been under financial duress and have been pleading to me to sell my house because I "don't need it". And they're technically right: I don't utilize this space. It's just my dog and I. I haven't set foot in some rooms in months. They say with the sale of the house, I can ...Not the A-hole. My friend and her 2y old son came to visit me last week. She's a single mom and we rarely see each other because we live far apart. I just moved into a bigger apartment, so they came to stay with me for a few days. Everything was fine at first, we had fun and although I'm not good with kids, I tried my best.AITA for telling my parents I was going to sell the property we all live on. Not the A-hole. A little bit of a backstory back in 2018 , my dad came up to me with a proposition that he would help me and my husband buy a house with his retirement money and then when he got his final check, he would pay it off as long as we bought the house and ...marvelous_maisie. ADMIN MOD. AITA for selling my car without telling my family? No A-holes here. Alright so I (F21) have always had a love for cars and my parents got me a nice car, it was a Hyundai Tiburan. I enjoyed that car and it was nice but also wasn't something that I wanted to keep as my forever car.It’s very complicated so I’ll do my best to make it make sense. I’ve been married to my husband, Tom, for a year, and we’ve been together for 4 years. I’m 26 and he’s 28, if that’s important. We’re in the north east, England. Since I met Tom and was introduced to the family home, I loved it. It’s old and cluttered with ...Throwaway bc I don't want family drama affiliated w my main account lmao Context: I'm (29m) my husband is (27m) and we have a 2 year old son. I lost touch with my family in my early 20s after coming out. They reached out right after my son was born talking about joys of family and can we reconnect they wanna be grandparents and all.My mom then says she's glad this part of my life is over and that she tried to warn me- " I told you so." I'm furious that my daughter, who's a student working part time that I let still live with me as an adult out of love, decided to betray me like that, humiliating me. I told her to leave. She gets furious and says that she was entitled to ...I talked my friend into the whole idea and she went home to sneak her passport out of her dad's cupboard. I got her a ticket and gave her the rest of my money in cash and some she got from selling all her gold, and dropped her off at the airport. Her flight was in six hours. She was still at the airport when her parents showed up panicking ...AITA for not letting my family use my home to party. Not the A-hole. So I invited my family to spend Christmas morning at my house. It's common knowledge within my family that my family (husband /26 and daughter /4) spend Christmas afternoon over at my in laws house and Christmas evening is spent as just us three.A Dad Wants To Sell One Daughter's Car To Pay For the Other Daughter's Tuition & Reddit Is Absolutely Losing It. by Rebecca Rakowitz. April 10, 2024 at 10:38am EDT. Adobe Stock. Family ...They can use good people to get them out of state facilities. The goal of fostering is almost always reunification so foster parents have to be willing to support that. This can be a road to heartbreak. Fostering may not be the right choice for someone who wants to keep a dog forever after 5 hrs of dog sitting.AITA for excluding my in-laws from an important family tradition that I only do with my kids . ... What a wonderful way to honor your initial tradition of visiting your late wife's grave and then be welcomed home by a new member of the family. I'm sorry your SIL is acting so self centered. ... It isn't a private thing for YOUR family, it ...Here's a functional plan to get your eldest to graduation without fucking over your youngest: Take the leave of absence, wtf. 2. Remortgage your home for the amount you spent from your oldest's college fund on your home loan. That's your consequence for counting your chickens before they hatch. 3. Daughter spends the next year saving up, as do you.Aita for not selling our childhood home to my brother. I (30M) bought my parents house from them three years ago, they moved out a year later after finding a house they liked. I've done renovations on the house and have it fit for market. ... My family are happy that I'm selling the house, nobody has been bitter. But my brother wants to buy it ...PJ-TJ. •. OP, make sure you 1) hire lawyer who works in trusts and estates, and 2) make sure executor and trustee ppwk is filed ASAP. It sounds like the father would not be above interceding and filing incorrect ppwk with a court, seeking to name himself executor and trustee so he can take the steps he outlined.YTA, not for selling it but for not offering to sell it to a family member first. You should've informed your family or at least offered them the chance to buy it. Your great grandmother left it to you cause of your passion for music so she felt you wo…2K views, 22 likes, 2 loves, 15 comments, 0 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Reddit Real Talk: AITA For Selling My Ex-fiancé's Family Heirloom When He..."AITA for refusing to share my vacation home with my in-laws for six months after they sold their house without consulting me?" Background: My husband (35M) and I (33F) have been married for five years. We own a beautiful vacation home on the beach that we built ourselves and use throughout the year.So I'm at a bit of a crossroad today. I'm thinking of selling the car I bought for my mom. I love my mom a lot and I got her a new Lexus in 2021. I'm not rich, and honestly it's not easy paying for it. I'm 27f and my mom is 60, and I have a sibling 37f who lives with me, but I don't recognize because honestly I hate her.AITA for not letting a family buy our home . My husband and I are selling our house, and we were touring a woman and her husband who are getting ready to start a family. ... You can't expect to sell the family home and also insist that the new owners keep it exactly the same to respect your sentiments. If you love it that much, don't sell. ReplyNTA. You're a grown-ass woman and can do whatever you want with your possessions. Your stepbrother and mother just assumed that you would give it to him rather than sell it or dispose of it in some other way. That was presumptuous and rude. It sounds like you and your dad had a great relationship.Fake account and fake names since a bunch of friends and family have my actual account. Back in April my friends Jessie (27F), Ashley (27F), Laura (28F) and I (28F) all went to see Taylor Swift. It was a great girls night and when she announced more North American dates over the summer for 2024 we made plans to go again.And she’s livid I refuse to sell it to her. I told her I was not going to sell it to her. Not be of her substance problem or lack of a job but bc yes I was not going to be moving into my trailer at the end of the day it is still my first home. I’m the first person in my family to own their own home and I’m not ready to sell it.Regardless, selling the cottage would be a huge blow to the rest of the family. The cottage has been in their family since at least the 80's and is in a very beautiful lakeside location, which makes up for the small size and poor build of the cottage itself.The silence after her outburst was our SM angrily telling Elaine and me to come to the office now. Turns out she was mad that I put the teapots away and once SM realized she wasn’t going to apologize he told me I could go and to just go home since I was clearly upset. I was upset and angry, found out how my trying to help didn’t shield my ...Legal_Fudge_5830. • 9 days ago. No. NTA. Considering the family member could actually sell both plots at ten times the price, if not twenty times the value, with such a large plot, if he so chose to do so in the future. Family member refused to accept the $50,000 discount, their choice, but ultimately also very manipulative to try and get you ...Not the A-hole. My friend and her 2y old son came to visit me last week. She's a single mom and we rarely see each other because we live far apart. I just moved into a bigger apartment, so they came to stay with me for a few days. Everything was fine at first, we had fun and although I'm not good with kids, I tried my best.. The issue comes in that the approximate value of whaAITA for selling the family heirloom of a stranger, and dodgi Yup, when it comes to selling heirlooms and sentimental items family has right of first refusal at a reasonable price. YTA. Reply reply. dr-sparkle. •• Edited. A reasonable price for a used grand piano could easily be $100,000, depending on the piano. A "low end" could be over $10,000 used. My (F30) husband (M31) dated Kathy (F30) for three y AITAH for not giving my family a $1 for selling the family home. Years ago, my grandparents helped my mother get a house for stability. As we grew up, we moved out, leaving the house vacant due to my mother's husband's disinterest. In 2016, I asked for the house, but my mother refused, citing issues with my children's father.She said the house appraised for $400,000 but going to sell it to us for $350,000 and wants us to pay it off in 10 years. The monthly payment will be about $2,300 a month. My wife and her aunt came to these figures based largely on how long her aunt expects to be active and wants to use the money to travel and enjoy life. AITA because my Wife wants me to sell the business I LOVE because I&#...
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