Original-Leading-324. AITA For Telling My Niece The Family Secret? Not the A-hole. Throwaway Account. I (35f) had two older sisters growing up "Jane" and "Kim." Kim got sick and died but not before giving birth to my niece "Laura" (18f). It had been a year after Kim's passing when Jane and Laura's dad "Tom" (42m) confessed to dating and were ...Hrekires said: NTA, it's your money to do as you wish with. If you don't have a will already, get one created. Otherwise your next of kin (parents or siblings) will inherit your estate by default and are not legally bound to follow any intentions you may have mentioned to them.AITA For going on a pre-planned and paid for vacation after my BF's father passed away My BF (30M) and I (28F) have been dating for 4 years and have been living together for the past 18-months. Our lease is up at the end of this month and we were hoping to have purchased a house by now, but that didn't happen.37 votes, 30 comments. Background: my parents live 1 minute down the road, my sister lives about 20 minutes away, and in-law parents live a few hours…You don't owe him any apology. You don't have to go running after him begging him to ket your niece be in the wedding, or for them to come, or anything. Just say "well, sorry you feel that way" and continue on with your wedding. As for anyone else trying to push this. Tell them: "they made their choice.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my niece she looked pretty? Not the A-hole. My (32F) stepsister "Kate" (34F) has always had a complex about physical appearance. It caused a lot of issues for her and all of us over the years and stopped her and I really having a relationship.AITA for moving out after my parents told me to give my space to my brother and his family? Video. Home. Live. Reels. Shows. Explore. More. Home. Live. Reels. Shows. Explore. AITA …Well, today's my dad's birthday so we were having a party for him. I had to come a little late everyone else was already there. When I walked in Charlie ran to me and hugged me. I hugged her and said, "Hey there's Charlie girl, how are you doing kid". My other nieces and nephews came up and I greeted them as well as my siblings and parents.AITA Am I the asshole for favoring one niece over her twin and admitting to it when confronted? A bit of backstory I, 39f, am a twin. Growing up my sister who I'll call Tanha, grew uncomfortable with being a twin. In a way I do get it, but that didn't mean it didn't hurt. Tanha married Jason, 42m, 20 years ago.When they do, you can become foster parents, take them in, and receive a monthly stipend to support them. I'm not familiar with your state's foster guidelines, but in my state they'd each receive $600-$722 a month. Additionally, they may receive a yearly clothing allowance.My parents were incredibly upset, as was I. My sister moved in with the guy immediately. My parents knew I was pissed but had to “support” their daughter. I went NC with Tory and LC with my parents. In 2020 when Tory’s second wedding happened, I didn’t go. Me and my dad had it out over it. My mother tried playing peacekeeper for the family.Going to go against the grain and say NTA. Your primary responsibility is to your own child. While it's sad that your niece's parents neglect her, you do not have to continue to keep her if that means that your game ceases to be a safe space for your own child. AutoModerator.AITA for admitting I regret having children. Not the A-hole. My wife and I are both 42 and in marriage counselling after our marriage basically went to shit after having kids (6 and 4 year old twins). A lot of issues and disagreements have come up in our marriage that have driven us apart and I have been working through my resentment that going ...NTA - your niece is clearly entitled and didn't like that you told her no. You have proof that she vandalised your car, costing you $1000 worth of damage. You have every right to press charges and take the case to court, especially if your aunt is unwilling to do the right thing and punish her for her actions.One of my sisters (36F) basically allows her daughter (8F) to eat whatever she wants to, even though my niece is extremely overweight and nearly 70lbs. For lunch I cooked a healthy meal of chicken and salad, and everyone got a small slice of sponge cake for dessert. My niece asked for a second slice and I declined.UPDATE. Hello everyone, A few years ago I posted this here on AITA, about my sister making a fuss about my niece not being the flower girl at my wedding. No one has asked for it, but I wanted to share this update anyway, because you guys really helped out a lot. So I took a few peoples advice about having both my niece and my then fiancé's ...My bio niece (19) was visiting. She's my goddaughter. It was her first time meeting my youngest two and my first time seeing her since she was in middle school. I love her like she's my own and spoil her with gifts every year. When I die she will inherit an equal amount as my biological kids. I'm helping fund her college education.Teacher making a big deal or it, then doubling down and also refusing to give directions for the assignment in time to actually allow you to help your niece complete the assignment is a major breach of niece's right to education. In short, yes, teacher got herself in trouble. You did right by your niece. Reply. Award.AITA for dropping my niece out the window when my SIL forced be to babysit : r/AmITheAngel. Go to AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales ...r/AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I think I might be the asshole because by refusing to go along with Amy's plan I might be contributing to worsening her relationship with Ashley and hurting Ashley in the long run.My stepbrother had severe autism and had a rare form of cancer later in life. He was 58 yrs old when he died. My grandmother took care of him. She died a few years later at the age of 89. My step-dad had put him in an institution because that is what the doctors told him to do. My grandmother took it on herself, but she had help.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.[Reddit AITA] AITA For Admitting That My Parents And My Neice Is The Reason Why I Left? Reddit Again - AITA. 194 subscribers. 608. 29K views 2 years ago …Wife Update - 14th May 2024. AITA being pissed at what my wife said to our niece. My sister and bil were abusive parents to my niece, Charlotte. I always tried to protect her, but my wife and I were only able to get custody threw years ago. We adopted her, and she's a good kid at heart, but she still struggles a lot.I (36f) have a niece and two nephews, all in their teens. Their parents, my brother and SIL, passed from an accident a year ago. They're currently staying with my widowed father (71). I also have a sister, Maria (43), who's married but childless. I have good relationships with all my niece and nephews and they're all good kids.I told my sister her stepkids aren't the problem and that my niece needs help to deal with things. I do believe my niece needs more help than she received with her initial therapy sessions. But maybe it wasn't my place to speak up, maybe I'm not looking at …ADMIN MOD. AITA for refusing to participate in meals with my picky eater niece? Not the A-hole. My niece (12F, only child) on my husband's side is a terribly picky eater. She will only eat a limited array of junk food and chicken, lamb, beef and bread. She does not have any disorders, sensory issues, intolerances or allergies.ADMIN MOD. AITA for ‘clearly’ favoring my nephew over my niece? Not the A-hole. My brother (43m) has 2 kids, my niece Miley (17f) and my nephew Noah (18m). I (26f) have found my personality aligns better with Noah’s than Miley’s, but I still treat them equal for the most part. For example, when it was Miley’s sweet sixteen I got her a ...Pretty much, when my mom came to my room to talk to me about what I said, I'd already decided I was going to apologize, you guys made it clear I needed to do that much. She asked if I meant what I said about Ari being a better mom than her or if I just said it to hurt her. It is true I said it was because I was upset she doesn't want me to go ...The niece was suspended several times. My ex and her niece got into some heated argument about her skipping school and letting boys into the house while the ex was at work. The niece and her friends cleaned the house of all valuables one day while my ex was at work and they left. No one knows where she’s at.I told my sister her stepkids aren't the problem and that my niece needs help to deal with things. I do believe my niece needs more help than she received with her initial therapy sessions. But maybe it wasn't my place to speak up, maybe I'm not looking at things the way I should.Also if my kid dared to insult the food offerings to the host face, I would ground them for life. Those parents are AH for raising and supporting an entitled shit. Business_Divide_5679. NTA, everyone acts entitled. Nobody will die from not eating meat for few hours. The parents should apologise on how their daughter acted.Also if my kid dared to insult the food offerings to the host face, I would ground them for life. Those parents are AH for raising and supporting an entitled shit. Business_Divide_5679. NTA, everyone acts entitled. Nobody will die from not eating meat for few hours. The parents should apologise on how their daughter acted.NTA I wish I had been your niece. My parents insisted I get a real degree, and go to a real college. I ended up attending one of the top culinary arts schools because I thought it would make everyone happy. I was on academic probation and flunked out in my second trimester. What I wanted to do was sing, learn music theory, and try my luck on ...My husband was talking to my dad outside and I was feeding my daughter in the other room, and I'd left Louis with Sarah and Dave. When I came back downstairs, Louis was crying, and I managed to understand that he'd tried to ask Sarah for a drink (he has a special cup he uses that he was holding, so it was obvious what he meant) but that she'd ...In response, I decided to block my parents' numbers and social media accounts to create some space and peace for myself and my niece. Since then, they've been reaching out through mutual friends, accusing me of cutting them off and keeping my niece from her family. They're making me feel guilty for wanting to maintain the stable, loving ...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: when my nephew was born I was 9 and everyone forgot about me so I treated him horribly but when my niece was born I was an adult and we have a very good relationship. after I invited my ...You, your SIL and partner are doing what's right for you and your partner and your neice won't even remember these times when she's grown but she will know her aunt and uncle and I feel with have a healthy happy relationship with you both. As for everyone else, they can keep their opinions to themselves. 7.AITA for dropping my niece out the window when my SIL forced be to babysit : r/AmITheAngel. Go to AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales ...Not the A-hole. I would like to preface that me (24f) and my sister (22f) are young mothers. She likes to go out a lot, I don't. Just this passed weekend, she wanted to go out to dinner and asked me to watch my niece. I agreed thinking it would be only a few hours. I honestly don't mind watching her. However, it was getting close to 10pm ...AITA for refusing to help my little sister until my niece stops being vegan? Not the A-hole. TA. My sister has 4 kids Maria (16f), Liam (16), Willow (13), and Teddy (10). My sister made some really bad choices that led to her being disowned by our parents and left her very poor. Another thing to know is that she absolutely spoil Maria.AITA for telling my wife that my parents tried to give our son a DNA test, leading to her restricting their access to him? I am 29, male, and married to a woman who is 32. ... My niece was born with dark brown straight hair, she’s got more of it now but it’s the same.My mother did pretty much the same with my little brother. Me, my sister, and one brother are each close in age. when my brother was born after my sister my mom was done. She then had an "opps" baby several years after. They totally changed when he was born. Did a 180 on parenting him compared to us. When we were bad we got out butts beat."AITA for favoring one niece over her twin and admitting to it when confronted?" Accurate-Tie9003. A bit of backstory: I , 39f, am a twin. Growing up, my sister who I'll call Tanha grew uncomfortable with being a twin. In a way I do get it, but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt. Tanha married Jason, 42m, 20 years ago.NTA I wish I had been your niece. My parents insisted I get a real degree, and go to a real college. I ended up attending one of the top culinary arts schools because I thought it would make everyone happy. I was on academic probation and flunked out in my second trimester. What I wanted to do was sing, learn music theory, and try my luck on ...As explained elsewhere, the parents want her there to take care of things. She changed her life activities to be able to do all that. Since they value a granddaughter rummaging through her the author's belongs more than being taken care of, the daughter is moving it all out and will be scaling down her help.They had everything planned, invited everyone and when the evening came for the dinner I just didn't go. My parents are furious with me. I had everything taken for a week and they plan to continue the punishment in some way. My grandparents defended me but my parents said I was rude. AITA? I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically.ADMIN MOD. AITA for banning my niece from my wedding? Not the A-hole. So I'm getting married (yay!) in a month and I'm kind of torn on an issue. My sister, Sarah* had her first kid, Ava* 2 years ago and she's great. The first grandchild of the family so of course she's adored by everyone.With my parents, my mom's health doesn't allow it, and my dad just doesn't pay attention. AND THEY HAVE A POOL. If I left my toddler with them, my kid would 100% drown in their pool while my mom screamed and my dad scrolled FB. My parents are deeply insulted we won't do things like leave the kid for a night when we visit.Original-Leading-324. AITA For Telling My Niece The Family Secret? Not the A-hole. Throwaway Account. I (35f) had two older sisters growing up "Jane" and "Kim." Kim got sick and died but not before giving birth to my niece "Laura" (18f). It had been a year after Kim's passing when Jane and Laura's dad "Tom" (42m) confessed to dating and were ...I'm sorry you're dealing with that, it's truly awful that she is so biopic and only focused on her own desires that she's willing to risk your and your mom's wellbeing. If it was her own kid, YTA. Since it's a niece and there's health concerns, NTA. Talk to your gf, explain that every weekend is a bit too much for you.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I refused to uninvite my brother (and later my parents) even though they would make her feel uncomfortable on our wedding day, and my …My husband and I checked our security footage you could clearly see Emily and someone else vandalizing the car. My husband gave the video copy to the police and Emily and her friend got arrested next morning. My sister and mom came to my house screaming that I was ruining my nieces life and if I loved her I would drop the charges.NTA. Not only are you not an asshole, you are a wonderful, kind person. You are protecting your niece and giving her a safe home, one she deserves. Because of you, she will be able to be herself in a safe environment, and not be forced to hide. She made the right call coming to you, and she'll remember that forever.Service ended around 430 and everyone was told to go to the reception. The wedding party had a limo to take them and a separate limo took the parents, grandparents, siblings. The couple is young and decided against family in the wedding party lol. It was 4 sorority sisters and fraternity brothers on each side. My wife and I drove.After speaking to several managers, providing copies of her passport and a birth certificate, one woman finally made it onto the ship. My parents recently celebrated their 40th ann...My (34f) sister (31f) was the first among four siblings to have a kid (5f). My niece is incredibly spoiled by my sister, our parents and extended family, and my parents bend over backwards for my sister's requests (like canceling their anniversary trip because my sister asked to babysit while she goes on a girls' weekend).My ex however is calling me an AH and says that i always favor Claire but thats not true so AITA? Edit: can yall stop assuming so many horribe things about Claire? she is just a kid and the girls fight like all siblings do. Sometimes its even Wendy who starts the fights. No one is bullying anyone here.My parents told my sister, and she called to blow up at me that I'll be ruining the vacation if I'm off doing my own thing while she has to wrangle her three boys. That's a laugh. She's admitting she's ruining your vacation so as not to ruin her own! They're her kids and her responsibility. NTA.Parents have a right to choose who teaches their children and OP did not offer them the chance to choose. It is not OP's job to make sure that kids that are not their own are taught life lessons. This is parenting. If OP had mentioned that they spoke to the parents who refused to see this as a health concern, I would think differently.ADMIN. AITA for choosing my niece and nephew who I barely know over my fiancee. No A-holes here. So backstory. My parents died when me (27) and my sister (37) were 15 and 25. My sister became my legal guardian until I was 18. We became very close after our parents death we had very little other family mmbers and the one we did have lived far ...The minute Rae got home, Sue ran to her crying and screaming that I told her Santa wasn’t real. Rae tried to calm her down and told her of course Santa was real and I was lying. When Rae put Sue down for a nap (yes, you read that right), she scolded me. She said I had no business trying to parent her child.As explained elsewhere, the parents want her there to take care of things. She changed her life activities to be able to do all that. Since they value a granddaughter rummaging through her the author's belongs more than being taken care of, the daughter is moving it all out and will be scaling down her help.AITA for excluding my niece from my son's birthday party after she r'uined his first party? ... The only people that should be apologizing are Linda, her spoiled brat kid and your parents! 16. 2h. Kathleen Bietler-Teets. Lets be clear, it was a BOYS PARTY. Your parents should have understood that. I would be mad at them too if they made me ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for not telling my niece the protagonist dies in the final book? Not the A-hole. She (13) has been reading through a book series for some time now, ever since I bought her the first book as a birthday gift back in September. There are about 30 books ; it is a very long series. Anyways, she started reading the final book last week.They go to the same school and when the bus comes, the daughter will not wake my niece up. My brother and girlfriend start work early in the morning. I will come over after my shift and take niece into school. The daughter made a terrible statement about how my niece doesn’t have a mother figure in her life and will not share hers. It’s ...Hey im 27m male and my Sister is 36w. Me and her taking care of my niece from one of my brothers and she's doing not so good. She has psychological problems and don't wanna go to a therapist anymore. Her father is a man who's just interested in himself. My brothers wife died because of a health condition called "cystic fibrosis".She says, "he only said he wanted a haircut to please you, he wanted to keep his hair long.". This was when he was between 7-12. So, I got to the point I made my son ask his mom (only after he mentioned wanting a haircut), then have the conversation with Ex Wife there, before I got his hair cut.Wife Update - 14th May 2024. AITA being pissed at what my wife said to our niece. My sister and bil were abusive parents to my niece, Charlotte. I always tried to protect her, but my wife and I were only able to get custody threw years ago. We adopted her, and she's a good kid at heart, but she still struggles a lot.I knew my mother, I lived with my mother for 15 years, then she was gone. died due to natural causes.(well semi, nothing bad just a mix) so my entire identity was changed, I went from two alive parents to half an orphan (mum raised me, divorced home, step-father was/is a joke) being shipped around basically until I was forced to move 1200 miles ...You absolutely are the AH. You let your niece push your daughter out of your life and you blatantly favor her. Just because she still has her mother doesn't mean your daughter doesn't deserve her real, actual FATHER to pay attention to her and take her places. You should be treating them equally.r/That90sShowTV. Set in Wisconsin in 1995, That '90s Show follows Leia Forman, daughter of Eric (Topher Grace) and Donna (Laura Prepon), who is visiting her grandparents for the summer and bonds with a new generation of Point Place kids under the watchful eye of Kitty and the stern glare of Red. Sex, drugs and rock 'n' roll never dies, it ...AITA for not treating my niece kindly and not allowing her into her own home? Not the A-hole. My 21 year old niece recently started dating Jim (also 21). While everyone was happy for her at first, me and her parents noticed that my 14 year old nephew was really nervous around him. We managed to get the reason out of him and it was absolutely .... I get to stay home by myself for a week of peace and quiet. My parentAITAH for not treating my niece and nephews as well My niece is 14. Her parents both recently died, and I (45M) am the closet family member that can support her. My wife (33F) is already very unhappy with the fact that a teenager is moving into her house. To make it worse, my niece strongly prefers my ex wife (46F). My ex wife, along with my niece's family, all got on the vegetarian bandwagon.NTA. The title should have been "AITA for hiring a pet sitter instead of my niece". Whether your brother was planning a trip or not, or if you were mad or not, your niece was flaking on a big responsibility. You may have had to cancel your trip if she backed out at the last minute. Asshole. My niece is 17, and she's kinda a bitch to her parents e I (32F) work as [a] paramedic and work 10-hour shifts. We are short-staffed at the moment and I am working the overtime that is given. My niece (4F) and nephew (5M) are all set and ready for going out on Halloween. My sister and [brother-in-law] work different hours and will reach out to me if I am available. Not the A-hole. I (30F) have two siblings: a brother ...
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