Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I forced my parents to choose between me and my exwife/ex best friend even though that meant they could potentially lose their chance to meet a pay and harm their friendship with my ex wife ...I (37M) have been married to my wife (39F) for almost 10 years. We have four kids under between 3-7. My MIL and SIL are not fond of me and I have a very rough relationship with that side of the family. Things are usually civil but there was a fight that recently caused a very big argument and threats to go no contact. My bio niece (19) was ...Teacher making a big deal or it, then doubling down and also refusing to give directions for the assignment in time to actually allow you to help your niece complete the assignment is a major breach of niece's right to education. In short, yes, teacher got herself in trouble. You did right by your niece. Reply. Award.uncommonbreeddogmom. •. NTA. You need to get a lawyer to draft an official move out document with a 30 day date. Her parents are going to tell her to just stay and call your bluff because "FaMilY". Don't let her screw you and your kids over. Reply reply. KaleidoscopeOld3504. •.Not the A-hole. I (30F) have two siblings: a brother B (34) and a sister S (39). Growing up S got everything she wanted and was spoiled. My parents would make B and I share our birthday and Christmas money with her so she didn't feel left out, but she never had to share with us. She was allowed to do multiple dances classes each week while B ...Yes, Jane and Tom had two (bio) children together. Unless they changed their minds Jane and Tom had every intention of never telling Laura and didn't think it was a big deal since the family medical history would still be the same. UPDATE: Laura reached out to me and my parents. She's safe and with her girlfriend.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my Aunt and Uncle that their 8 year old is not good enough at art to sell it, and explicitly that mine is more important.My bio niece (19) was visiting. She's my goddaughter. It was her first time meeting my youngest two and my first time seeing her since she was in middle school. I love her like she's my own and spoil her with gifts every year. When I die she will inherit an equal amount as my biological kids. I'm helping fund her college education.AITA for moving out after my parents told me to give my space to my brother and his family? #redditstories #tldrstoryteller #storytime #askreddit...RefrigeratorNice8041. MOD. AITA for getting my niece a pup cup and 'treating her like a dog'? Not the A-hole. I (m25) have a 5 year old niece Evie from my older sister Jane (f32). I took her out last week to go to the zoo and give my sister and her husband a break. On our way home, we went through our local starbucks drive through.My husband and I exchanged the earrings for the matching necklace during the weekend. Our girl loved it. We filmed her wearing it and thanking my father and his wife, and sent them the video. My father sent us an audio ("you're welcome, honey", "I love you", etc.) in response. My stepmother didn't reply, nor do I expect her to.For cutting my niece off college fund because of what she said about me. I'm just going to be direct and quick. I (M35) have 2 sisters that I'm close with, I also have a niece (Leah), Leah's 16 and after my ex wife decided to split up and divorce due to inferitility problems that lasted for 5 years. I started a college fund for Leah to help her ...My parents split up last year and during the divorce, my dad treated my mom so horribly that I'm just disgusted by him now. Even my older half brother took the side of my mom, his step mom. When my brother told our grandmother what really went down in the divorce, she broke down crying and said she couldn't believe her son would act like that.MOD. AITA For not lying to my niece and nephew as to why I won't be cooking for them anymore. I (27M) have a older sister (33) and she is a stay at home mom to her two kids 6M and 8F and homeschools them. Our mother was a single mom and didn't have the time to cook for us. So we always either ate fast food or premade to heat up.A bride has gone viral after admitting that she asked her photographer to edit her niece's dress — which was white — in her wedding party photos. "So I (30f) got married, yay!Turn around and firmly but calmly tell her, that your niece and nephew are in your care and they are your responsibility, so therefore by her wording your not responsible for your nephew, her son, so she can pay for her son to have a tutor if she really wants him to have access to one. 1. GothPenguin.My niece and nephew are 1 and 4 years old. I struggle to interact with them, I just freeze up and can't really say anything. I'm generally like this with everyone, people have to initiate conversation with me first for me to respond and in these situations I can mask okay, but not for long periods of time.It's a freaking ice cream cone. I'm sure you've been bribed with things much worse than that as a kid. And if you were that worried about it, you could have just taken her to the ice cream shop after school and gotten her a cone then. I'm sure that would have made the separation anxiety a little easier. 3.throwaway6933772. •. I'm a person who believes in the existence of God, and from what I see in your description, 100% you're NTA. Your niece asked you a question, and you answered honestly. Not everyone believes in the existence of a supreme creator of the universe, that's why if you believe, it's called faith.Background: I (31F) have been having problems with my older sister (36F) my entire life. She's never let me forget that I'm the "half-sister." Both of our parents are her biological parents whereas I am only biologically related to my mom. My dad is technically my stepfather but raised me my entire life. My sister I'll call "Lily."I (F23) have been told my entire life that if anything happens to my parents I will be my sister's guardian. She is 33 and has some disabilities. She is currently living in a group home. The government pays for a good portion of the cost but not all.Original-Leading-324. AITA For Telling My Niece The Family Secret? Not the A-hole. Throwaway Account. I (35f) had two older sisters growing up "Jane" and "Kim." Kim got sick and died but not before giving birth to my niece "Laura" (18f). It had been a year after Kim's passing when Jane and Laura's dad "Tom" (42m) confessed to dating and were ...Sis how are you this dumb and entitled, adults wouldn't watch this many kids at once by themselves professional, I should know I babysat and help take care babies and toddlers before, so this is some pure b.s. that you put your niece 13 year-old in charge of 7 kids, you should be a shamed of yourself for saying that to your niece and exploiting her.AITA for excluding my niece from my son's birthday party after she r'uined his first party? ... The only people that should be apologizing are Linda, her spoiled brat kid and your parents! 16. 2h. Kathleen Bietler-Teets. Lets be clear, it was a BOYS PARTY. Your parents should have understood that. I would be mad at them too if they made me ...I (36f) have a niece and two nephews, all in their teens. Their parents, my brother and SIL, passed from an accident a year ago. They're currently staying with my widowed father (71). I also have a sister, Maria (43), who's married but childless. I have good relationships with all my niece and nephews and they're all good kids.My brother is their uncle, my mom and dad are their nana and pop— the kids see my family as their family and I always thought that my family felt the same way about them. The kids and I were over at my brother's house just hanging out, and my parents ended up dropping by with gifts for my niece.Ava needs therapy and to realize that she is your sister and wife’s child, not yours. Yes she’s your biological child but as a sperm donor, but she’s your sister and her wife’s daughter-not yours and your wife’s. She is biologically your children’s sibling but in a family dynamic as a whole she should be their cousin.r/AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.r/AITA in todays am I the a**hole stories, op has been contacted by a family member to adopt their niece and nephews after they had been put into the foster ...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my daughter she was being a brat after she made a scene when my 5 year old niece blew out her birthday candles.10 votes, 21 comments. 16M subscribers in the AmItheAsshole community. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to…"AITA for favoring one niece over her twin and admitting to it when confronted?" Accurate-Tie9003. A bit of backstory: I , 39f, am a twin. Growing up, my sister who I'll call Tanha grew uncomfortable with being a twin. In a way I do get it, but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt. Tanha married Jason, 42m, 20 years ago.The stress and conflict became unbearable, and I felt like they were not considering my niece's best interests, just my sister’s wishes. In response, I decided to block my …The niece was suspended several times. My ex and her niece got into some heated argument about her skipping school and letting boys into the house while the ex was at work. The niece and her friends cleaned the house of all valuables one day while my ex was at work and they left. No one knows where she’s at.10 votes, 21 comments. 16M subscribers in the AmItheAsshole community. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to…AITA for Asking My Niece to Stop Speaking French Around My Dyslexic Wife? Not enough info. My wife (28F) Sarah and I (M30) have been married for five years. She's incredible, loving, and my favourite person in the world. Now, my entire family has tradition of learning and speaking French. It's always been a fun way for us to bond.AITA for telling my niece I didn't want to be her father and following through. Asshole. I'll admit I may not have reacted great, but I don't think I'm wrong overall. My sister and bil passed 5 years ago, and I was left with her children (Eric, 11, Melissa, 14 and Lilly, 7).I never wanted children, and honestly don't particularly like em.38K views, 363 likes, 2 loves, 214 comments, 11 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from DailyredditReadings: AITA for not including my niece in my daughters birthday since her parents can't afford it?NTA. Your sister openly admitted she wants you around for your money, not because she wants you and your niblings to build an actual relationship with each other. Your sister is a real piece of work. It's good to see your niece gets a positive relationship of some kind with her mother's side of the family.NTA - your niece is clearly entitled and didn't like that you told her no. You have proof that she vandalised your car, costing you $1000 worth of damage. You have every right to press charges and take the case to court, especially if your aunt is unwilling to do the right thing and punish her for her actions.Aita for admitting that my parents and niece what are the reason that I left. Throwaway. I (29 m) have a niece (19f), and as the title says, she and my parents are a massive reason why I moved away. When she was a little kid, she was unbelievably disrespectful, and just downright mean. She would literally scream, yell, if no one was around she ...They also hired my 18 year old brother to work there because they want him to have job experience before going off to college. They didn’t offer to hire me, and I didn’t ask because I already have a fast food job. Anyway, my house is pretty close to the shop, and my friends and I decided to meet up there yesterday for icecream and to hang out.You don't owe him any apology. You don't have to go running after him begging him to ket your niece be in the wedding, or for them to come, or anything. Just say "well, sorry you feel that way" and continue on with your wedding. As for anyone else trying to push this. Tell them: "they made their choice.Using a throwaway because I don't want this attached to my real account. I 30f have a younger sister 27f who's currently around 6 months pregnant with her first child. Everyone is super excited for her and her husband, especially because she's the first of the 2 of us to give my parents a grandchild.AITA for dropping my niece out the window when my SIL forced be to babysit : r/AmITheAngel. Go to AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales ...My husband wants her to move in, he'll get her a car, and have her go to the school 10 minutes away with us financially supporting her. I don't want to do that. First, we already told Emilia that we will not be covering 100% of her expenses. She has a job and pays 1/2 of her car payment and insurance , all of her gas, maintenance, and ...AITA for asking my niece why she would expect anything from me or anyone else for Christmas . So, about 2 years ago now my niece, out of the blue did a complete 180 & denounced her belief in God. ... This Thanksgiving (everyone that gathered was negative for COVID, necessary precautions taken & it was just my parents, siblings & their kids, not ...My niece (20F) is the only exception. She is my brother's (43M) daughter and despite her parents showing no prejudices against the LGBTQ+ community, she doesn't make a secret of her homophobia. I don't know where her believes stem from but the day I first introduced my husband/ then boyfriend to her family, she has been very hostile ...AITA for wanting to tell my bro my niece is spoiled. Not the A-hole. So I have 2 nieces (they have different moms). One is 16 and has Down Syndrome and lives in Long Island so I don't see her much. The other is 8 and is literally at my parents house every week for at least 3 days if not more. My brother (47) has her spoiled beyond belief.AITA for giving my niece/nephew books that conflict with their parents' beliefs? My sibling is married with one child: "Jamie.". Both my sibling & I loved reading from a young age. When Jamie was in utero I gave my sibling & their spouse (hereafter S&S) about 20 books with "mommy & daddy" themes. I've continued to give books as gifts ...Also, littles are surprisingly good at learning to pronounce "difficult" things. My name is difficult for grown adults to say but my niece could say it by 3. Drove my sister absolutely bonkers that her kid could manage something akin to "Angelica" with crystal clarity, but "Fiona" (sister's name) sounded like she was gargling peanut butter 😂5 days ago · Many will suggest things like ADHD, sensory integration, oppositional defiance, perfectionism, Autism and more. Sometimes they are right, sometimes they are not. My response is the same in both situations. It goes something like this: I ask parents to spend the next week or two observing their child.My little brother graduated last year and got into the same school. Rather than stay in dorms he convinced my parents to let him move in with me. Well they own it so I had no say. I lasted one semester. Since he had an off campus residence my apartment became party central. I asked my parents to make him stop after talking to him didn't work.If your post was featured and you want it removed please visit: https://forms.gle/NmQZmMNqfLBxMRSd8Original: AITA for telling my niece why I kept a distance...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I was an asshole for trying to play a bad joke on my niece, and making her cry in the process and hurting her feelings.American Airlines invited us to spend a night at its operations center learning how the airline runs. Sleep is a precious commodity as the parent of a toddler. So when I got an inv...ADMIN MOD. AITA for not taking in my son and his family. Not the A-hole. My ex wife and I adopted our son when he was six. We had been his foster parents for three years and we wanted to make it official. He met his wife when he was 18. She knew he was adopted and she thought it would be good for him to get to know his biological parents.See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered! UPDATE: AITA pissed at what my wife said to my niece. First I want to thank everyone for their responses. It was helpful, even some I disagreed with. While things aren't perfect, they're both good kids and my wife is making amends for what she did. Since then my wife and I have been ...He began with the inciting incident. "My (43-male) wife (41-female) recently had her brother and his wife pass away following an accident.". "My wife and her brother were not on good terms at the time of his passing due to an argument they had in august.". "My BIL/SIL left behind 2 children, our niece (9) and nephew (11).".AITA for telling extended family that my brother was an abusive piece of shit and taking his ex wife's side in the divorce . ... He has a 10 year old daughter from a one night stand. Bio mom is not in the picture. Katrina is the only mom my niece, Elise, has ever known. ... (parents, grandparents, brother) are mad at me for airing his dirty ...ADMIN MOD. AITA For "Ruining" my kid's life after she ruined a dress? Not the A-hole. Ex (31) and I (m32) had C, (F16) way too young. We're friendly co-parents. One big rule we share is if our daughter breaks something, she pays for it. Now, sis (27) and I are the only grandkids. Aunt never married.After speaking to several managers, providing copies of her passport and a birth certificate, one woman finally made it onto the ship. My parents recently celebrated their 40th ann...For example, I found that my niece sneaked into my study and drew all over my wall when she was four. I was understanding that she's a child. I did not get upset in front of her. I calmly had my wife take her out and away. I had a massive anxiety attack over having my space interfered with. It's very clean the way I like it.You're being generous enough letting your sister stay there. However, maybe your sister should stay with your parents while the kid stays with BIL. She's just going to guilt trip you for not letting her kid stay there constantly. And BIL might try to just dump the kid on you, anyway, if your sister is there. 1.I wrap the food up. I leave to give my niece the gift from Mark. After Mark and I finish re-baking a cake I spent hours on, the party continues. After the party is over, I start yelling at Mark in anger and he apologizes, so I let him go, apologizing for being so mad. After Mark leaves, Sarah yells at me and calls me an asshole for making Mark ...I also am well aware that I was the only one keeping my niece(8) and especially my nephew (10 in march) from being beaten by my parents. My mother even told me that if I in her words "cannot find a way to get him to behave they will keep beating him because thats the only way to get him to listen."My nieces and nephews were the only kids there, all of the neighbors are older like my parents." OOP is voted NTA. Update Post: August 17, 2023 (Almost 1 month later) First off, my folks tell me that my nieces and nephews are all good swimmers and that they use the pool all the time. The 7 year old is still a beginner but he loves the water.My parents, mostly my mother, accused me of being selfish and bringing up the fact I live in a house with 4 bedrooms. She suggested that I should turn one the bedrooms over for my niece. I told her that won't be happening as I don't want more children and do no want the responsibility of more kids. I suggested that they should give my niece up toAITA for refusing to support niece’s lifestyle | for not wanting parents to adopt another teen girl - YouTube. TTSReads Reddit Stories. 10K subscribers. …Some time ago I started to pull away from my niece and, in general, just helping my sister. Now, that there's a second baby coming, my mom and sister are trying to get me to help out a lot more with my niece. She's not like a toddler either, she's just turned a year old, so it's still a lot of work just dealing with her.For cutting my niece off college fund because of what she said about me. I'm just going to be direct and quick. I (M35) have 2 sisters that I'm close with, I also have a niece (Leah), Leah's 16 and after my ex wife decided to split up and divorce due to inferitility problems that lasted for 5 years. I started a college fund for Leah to help her ...AITA For Pressing Charges On My Niece And Making My Sister Pay #niece #sister #family #parents #children #aita #reddit #storiesr/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.For the past couple weeks, on my weekends I've had to watch my niece and nephew, while I had my friend over, so we couldn't really hang out. My sister and mother asked, more of a demand, that I watch the kids, and I just want my whole weekend to myself, so I said no, and then my mom was immediately batching and trying to guilt trip me, like loudly scoffing and loudly saying she'll take time ...You absolutely are the AH. You let your niece push your daughter out of your life and you blatantly favor her. Just because she still has her mother doesn't mean your daughter doesn't deserve her real, actual FATHER to pay attention to her and take her places. You should be treating them equally."AITA for favoring one niece over her twin and admitting to it when confronted?" Accurate-Tie9003. A bit of backstory: I , 39f, am a twin. Growing up, my sister who I'll call Tanha grew uncomfortable with being a twin. In a way I do get it, but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt. Tanha married Jason, 42m, 20 years ago.s4febook. AITA for getting my niece disqualified for a job? Not the A-hole. Disclaimer: I am Indian, we refer to our cousins children as "niece" and "nephew" in our culture. I (26f) have 4 aunts. My aunts all have grown children in their 40s+. About 15 years ago, my parents divorced.When my niece was 10 months old she was placed in my parents care (Child Protection removed her from her mother) and at a bit over a year old Child Protection informed my parents and brother that niece and her siblings were all requiring DNA testing as the mother had listed 2-3 men as "possible fathers" for 3 out of 4 of her kids (eldest .... A month ago, my niece called me in tears, saying sYour parents placing blame on you as a CHILD f dishonestpup. AITA for not taking my niece to school? Not the A-hole. Since the beginning of August, I've been taking my niece (5yo) to Kindergarden 2-3 times per week because my sister starts work at 6 and niece doesn't get dropped off until 7:30. I wake up at 5:15AM to get ready and drive over to my sister's house.ADMIN. AITA for threatening to tell my niece the truth about her father. Asshole. Hi all. I (31F) have recently got myself into hot water with my sister (34F) My sister's ex boyfriend and father of her 15 year old daughter was heavily involved with gangs and it ended up costing him his life. He wasn't much of a good person and I remember him ... "AITA for refusing to watch my nieces and Original-Leading-324. AITA For Telling My Niece The Family Secret? Not the A-hole. Throwaway Account. I (35f) had two older sisters growing up "Jane" and "Kim." Kim got sick and died but not before giving birth to my niece "Laura" (18f). It had been a year after Kim's passing when Jane and Laura's dad "Tom" (42m) confessed to dating and were ... Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide...
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